By forbidding you to see your boyfriend, your mom isn’t punishing you—even though it feels like it. What she’s really saying is that she’s concerned about your physical and emotional well-being. It’ll feel weird at first (especially if you and your mom don’t share personal stuff), but try to let her in on how you feel about your boyfriend. Then, ask for her advice. She may help you to see that you’re not ready to get physical with a guy. Or she may help you understand how to deal with your feelings safely and appropriately. By being up-front with your mom, you can begin to regain her trust in you. Then you both can decide when and if you’re ready to start seeing your boyfriend again.