You're right to be concerned. Being online is fun, but if you're not careful, it can be dangerous. Have your friend promise to tell her parents about this guy. SHe should also arrange to have them talk to HIS parents to find out if he's for real. If her "boyfriend" complains about giving up his contact info, then chances are he's not who he says he isand she needs to delete him from her address book and buddy list IMMEDIATELY. You're a good friend Carlie!

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