Many guys are stimulated visually. (Girls are too to a certain extent.) Keep in mind though that the "girlie" mags are all about FANTASY. Look at it this way: Maybe you've seen all of Freddie Prinze Jr.'s movies cause you think he's the cutest thing ever -- but would you not like a real-life guy just because he's not as cute? Probably not, right?

It's the same things with guys and the "plastic" girls on the pages of these magazines. Just because they like to look at the pictures doesn't mean they think "real' girls are unattractive. Having said that, if a guy does compare you to his porno ideal, say "Buh-bye." He obviously wants a trophy, not a real person. Besides, you are many guys' fantasy just the way you are. Honest.